Beaches07: Good question, when you find that out can you let all of us CT lifers know ?. We are all searching for the same things, Love,friendship,honesty,able to commit, no games and so on.....I am searching as well.
I recently joined a group called "Sparks," for singles 40+ which is one of the many, many special interest groups of a national organization called MeetUp.org. Its members are mostly in Fairfield and Northern Westchester. But take a look at MeetUp. There will definitely be a group interested in some of the things you're interested in. I go to movies and dinner with one group and then dancing with another bunch of really fun people. Costs nothing to join and only a buck per activity that goes to the organizer. Last weekend's dinner was fantastic, at an old family style Italian restaurant in Stamford. Four courses and all the wine you could drink, all for $55 inclusive. The hardy ones went out dancing after that.